Many people take on more tasks and responsibilities, or “overdo”, in the hope of earning love or approval from others. However, this can often lead to stress and exhaustion, and it’s not a sustainable or healthy way to gain self-worth.
True self-worth comes from within, not from the validation of others. It’s important to learn to love and approve of ourselves, embracing our strengths and accepting our weaknesses. When we find love and approval within ourselves, we no longer feel the need to overdo things for others’ acceptance. We can then focus on fulfilling our own needs and desires, leading to a more balanced and content life.
When we define our worth based on others’ perceptions, we give away our power. Taking our power back involves:
Releasing Attachments: Let go of the need for validation from others. Your value is inherent and doesn’t rely on external approval.
Let Go of things that don’t serve you: Recognize habits that don’t serve you, like overworking. Replace these behaviors with things that do serve you instead.
Practicing Self-Care: Prioritize activities that nourish your mind and body. This can range from getting enough sleep, giving yourself quiet time or flowers, getting regular massages or walks or making time for hobbies you love.
Remember, your value comes from within, and the love and approval you seek should first and foremost come from yourself.
Support yourself by releasing unhealthy attachments and practices, and focusing on self-care, you start to regain control over your life and well-being.